I was never the kind of girl who fantasized about my wedding dress. Maybe it's because at an early age, I realized how terrible I looked in white. Jewelry, music, flowers, sure. I thought about kitchens a lot, and gardens. But not wedding dresses.
I really like Carolina Herrera, super a lot. And I like Oscar, of course.
I could eat this dress with a spoon:
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But I can't fathom paying top dollar for a dress my children will be too tall to wear (HELLO 11 inch height difference with my fiance!).
The first place I went was actually a consignment store in Kirkland, WA, called Champagne Taste. And there I found a wedding dress that fit like a glove. It was $300. The catch- it was David's Bridal. Now they have some truly lovely dresses, but I knew that I wanted a dress no one else would ever have.
Fast forward a few months. I realize that we still have my dear mother's wedding dress, which was never really used (she and my dad eloped). It was a little 70's-tastic. Okay, it was a LOT 70's-tastic. (I don't feel weird about posting this since the dress will be so different after alterations).
My grandmother had kept it at her house, in a wardrobe, IN A BEDSHEET.
Seriously, folks, no $300 preservation, no nothin'. A bedsheet. For 25 years.
Wanna take a guess at where she got it? 25 years ago?
.... The Goodwill. If that isn't budget friendly, I don't know what is.
And it's beautiful. The fabric is strong, embroidered organza in a beautiful candlelight ivory (NOT WHITE! HOORAY!), and there are the dearest cotton lace flowers on the belt, neckline and arms.
I will have my dressmaker, the great and esteemed Sandra Ashford, redo this dress. She's the go-to woman in Mississippi for redoing dresses, but she's also about to be family- she's my future mother-in-law's cousin. She's going to make it into the typical strapless silhouette, and put all the lace around the bustline. I can't wait to see how it turns out. I have my first fitting when I go home in May!
She will also be making my veil and even a garter. Ladies, if you have an heirloom dress, you simply have to call Sandra!